Answering Readers, Part 2

Biblical (תַּנַ״ךְ) depiction of
the flight from Sodom and Gomorrah

Relationship Advice |
Wednesday – July 1, 2026

Again I have been invited to answer a question by one of my readers as a part of this series, namely the "Answering Readers series". Once again I must stress the fact that I am not in control of the questions that my readers are asking me when they write me letters, and while I have no strict rules when it comes to answering your questions, I would prefer if you could keep out any offensive language. The question that I was asked recently and that I intend to cover and provide an answer to in this post was phrased in a somewhat offensive manner, thus I have decided to change the part/s of the question that I deem too offensive; I will indicate this by the usage of brackets ([]) in relevant quotations. Again, this question was asked by a person who did not wish to be anonymous and so I will reveal his name, namely Mr. Jordan Richards. To further reiterate what I stated in the previous post of this series: if you wish to ask me a question by writing me a letter but also remain anonymous when I answer your question I will be more than happy to oblige as your particular identity is of no real importance actually, but I am also more than happy to publish certain privileged information about you such as your name, occupation, etc, if you wish and perhaps more so if I find any relevance in publishing these details; again I have no strict rules expect my respect for the integrity of each and everyone who reads this blog. This is why I should add that Mr. Jordan Richards is a security officer, something that he revealed in his letter to me and something that he wanted me to reveal here and something that I find relevant to the extent that it applies to his question that he asked in his letter addressed to me.

    Mr. Jordan Richards asks: "Wazzup Mr. Dutt, I've been reading your page for a while and I'm subscribing to your RSS-feed. I really like your insights. Anyways, I have a question about my love life: do you think I should marry my girlfriend before [engaging in the sensual arts, that is should I consummate my marriage]? ... Regards, Jordan Richards". Again, mind my slight editorialization of the question at hand.

    Verily Mr. Richards, the question that you have asked me is indeed important and since you are a Christian, another piece of privileged information that I do find highly relevant in this matter, I would suggest that you turn to doctrine, but since you belong to a protestant denomination, namely the Episcopal Church of America, I can see that doctrine may not be of much help, especially not as of late, as the Episcopal Church has become highly politicized and has become hijacked by a band of criminals masquerading as a qualified clergy, read "Qualification", and their so-called doctrine is really of no help in your situation as they have discarded the last vestiges of Western tradition, and this is especially the case I must add with Protestantism as a phenomenon. This is why I also suggest that you consider leaving the Episcopal Church, or at any rate that you look into the past and rely on doctrine that is no longer practiced within your congregation. I am sure that there is some kind of source and some kind of material still holding on to some truth, read "Knowledge". If nothing else works you still have the Bible that you may turn to, and if you become initiated you can turn to all major metaphysical traditions, but this is a much broader point that I cannot contain within the scope of this post.

    Now, as far as your relationship with your so-called "girlfriend" is concerned you must consider two things: why is she your girlfriend at this juncture and not already your wife; and what would give you the permission—from the standpoint here of exotericism, a problem that I mentioned above—to engage in the sensual arts with her before she has even become betrothed to you and let alone your wife? What if you end up making her pregnant? Would you like to father a bastard, a child born out of wedlock that is? Beyond fathering a child born out of wedlock (a bastard), you must also consider the effects this will have on your relationship with God: I am here referring to discipline and still only to the exoteric aspects of your question, because if you fail this test, as most Christians would put it, to ward off this kind of lust and promiscuity, then you are not really a Christian nor are you anything but infra-human because, read "What are Demons?", at the end of the day if you wish to adhere to the traditions of your forefathers and if you wish to uphold righteousness within your relationship to God and to the world, you must put God before your girlfriend and before your lust. Also, I believe that you are in danger of confusing your girlfriend with lust, or really equating her with the sensual arts, read "What is Collectivism?", and remember that Satan always relies on confusion and deceit. I should also add that I can understand that you feel the need to explore your girlfriend so to speak, but I would suggest that you attempt to let go of this need to control your every move; if you actually believe that you have a destiny with this woman, then you should already marry her, but the kind pseudo-relationship that you now have with this woman is actually highly suspect and if you continue like this I can only foreshadow disaster ahead, read "Destruction!", as you will become more and more likely to replace God and doctrine with her.

    Whether or not you should marry your girlfriend is hard for me to answer since I lack too many details about her, but a start would be at the very least that she shares your religious convictions, in this case that she too is an Episcopalian, and that she is a Lily of the Valley (a virgin), because you do not want to introduce pollution and impurity into your already somewhat sorted life, and a woman that has already been engaging in the sensual arts with another man can only mean one of or both of two things: either she is a divorcee, something that is strictly forbidden in accordance with true Christian doctrine, or that she is a wench or in the best case a courtesan. Now, ask yourself this: would you like to live a lie, would you like to introduce Satan into your life? If you do not want this and if you know these things to be true about your girlfriend, then you have a choice: either you choose the righteous path, that of God Almighty over human power, or you choose the path of deceitfulness, broken promises, and moral decay – the path of modernity. Now, if your girlfriend is pure and if she shares your convictions and if she allows your to become her pilot and if you allow God to become your pilot, I see no reason why you should not marry her, but again what you should NOT do it so engage in the sensual arts with her before you have married her; then and only then may you consummate the marriage, in accordance with doctrine and with tradition.

    You have reached the end of this post. If you wish me to answer some of your questions I would be more than happy to do so. You may use the Contact Form attached to this webpage to write me a letter, or you may send an email to etherealinsight@protonmail.com, and if you wish to be really prudent you may use both. I may or may not answer your question quickly, which means that it may take a while before I answer your question. Now, you may also write me a letter without a question or you may also ask that I only answer your question in private; in the latter case I should add that it will likely take even longer for me to get back to you.

 

Reginald Drax (AKA, M. C. Dutt) – July 1, 2026.